A woman who suffered horrific injuries after she was dragged behind a car at high speed has fallen out with her family over her decision to stay with the man convicted of kidnapping her.
Rotorua mother Ana Eriepa is still recovering from the terrifying ordeal on May 25 that saw her left foot amputated above the ankle, multiple skin grafts, a ripped scalp and a badly dislocated thumb.
Her boyfriend, Sonny Waiti, was to have been sentenced this Friday on the charge of kidnapping, which he admitted, but the Herald understands his case has been deferred to a later date as he is changing lawyers.
It's not surprising that Ms Eriepa has fallen out with her whanau when you read her impassioned defence of the man who almost killed her; read on:
Ms Eriepa said she would continue to support Waiti and would attend his sentencing.
She said fears about him were unfounded.
"People don't understand him but he's not a bad guy," she told the Herald at her Rotorua home yesterday.
"Will I stand by him? 100 per cent, I will. He's actually a good boy ... he has a good heart."
And here comes the real kicker:
Ms Eriepa told the Herald she had no concerns for her children's' safety around Waiti. But when asked if she intended to marry him she became evasive.
"I'm not saying if it's true but I'm not denying it either," she said.
A woman who referred to herself as Waiti's aunty and was at Ms Eriepa's home yesterday said her nephew "had a good heart".
"He was just on that crap [drugs], that's all," said the woman, who asked not to be named. "He's been through a lot, he has good intentions but just goes about things the wrong way."
According to a police summary of facts, Waiti and Ms Eriepa were in a relationship and had been living together for about three weeks after he was released from prison.
Waiti had only just completed serving a two-year, three-month sentence for aggravated assault and other offending.
Ah yes; the drugs. The old "he's a good guy when he's not stoned off his face" line. Well, pardon us for having old-fashioned values and all that but someone who is a "good boy" with a "good heart" doesn't beat his partner up, stuff her in the boot of the car and drive off at speed to show the partner that he loves her.
Ms Eriepa's loyalty to the man who cost her her lower leg is touching on one hand, but totally misguided. We guess that it's a good thing that Waiti will be kept away from her children for a significant period of time.
Otherwise we are sure that Child Youth and Family would become very interested in the living arrangements of the whanau, especially given Paula Bennett's policy announcement last week on vulnerable children.
Is it any wonder that New Zealand has such a dreadful problem with child abuse when parents allow violent, drug-fuelled monsters into their homes and lives?


